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3/7/11

happiness is always accompanied by sadness

I really believe that happiness is accompanied by sadness. But the good thing is there is no sadness without happiness.

As much as I hate the fact that happiness is always accompanied by sadness, I truly believe in it. In my life or in my family for instance, when there is happiness - sadness will follow. What the heck??? But life goes this way and we have nothing to do with it, life is not easy as everyone say...because it truly is... only the strong survive! but hey! no one has reached the finish line alive, put that in mind! We all die, so live life to the fullest no matter how hard it is. Don;t ever lost your faith and even dare to think of giving up. Why don;t we just enjoy life while we're here, right??? I know it's easy to say this, but sometimes frustration, disappointment, dissatifaction, poverty, loneliness to mention the few -can make us weak and helpless. These are the things that pull us down and lead us to think negative ones. I know everyone of us suffer in this kind of life, but just be strong and always have faith in God. He is the only one who could undstand us, the one who will make us feel being loved. Once a thing occur or happen to us, God is always involve coz everything that comes to us - God has always a reason to it! All we have to do is to face it confidently and show others we can do it!!!!

OMG! I'm so happy that I am so positive right now! yay!!! I used to write rant blog before, now it's so inspiring but I can't assure you on not to write negative things in the future hahaha. Remember in every positive, comes the negative. And for now I would like to say...I don't care...negative things are just fuck! right peeps???! bwahahaha! til then...

First blog after 2 months

January..February...March..OMG! it's already March!!! Time went so fast that I didn't noticed I missed two months without writing. It means I have to keep up and fill those missing days that I had missed. Anyway, here I am.. starting my task before it's getting too late to do it. For now I could say, I'm not that late coz I have so many things in my mind to write.

Now I learned that writing isn't just writing anything you want. In my case, I used to think that writing is just my way of learning and of improving my English. But now it seems like there is more about writing.

Writing can help you change things suround you. For instance, through writing I could feel peaceful. I mean, if you have something inside you that you want to spit out before it intoxicate your soul. Something that it need to be said but there is nobody to be told or nobody could understand no matter how you explain it. In short, Writing is the key to let you out those negative things inside you and make you empty, peaceful and better.

Have you ever felt that sometimes in our lives there are things that no one could understand except yourself??? and you want to share it but explanation or words is not enough for others to undestand the whole thing??? I'm sure you felt that coz I did.

In our lives there are so many small things that bother us. It's just small things but if those small things combine it will become big, right? those small things is not really important to be told to anyone closed to you or even to your family. What I'm saying here is, everyone of us is unique... nobody knew us better than ourselves.

It's up for us on how to handle each circumstances that happens into ourlives. In my case, Writing is my way...I think my best way to let negative things go and positive things to share. I think it is healthy to do it, coz after letting it go you will feel better. That's why I started using this therapy for how many months now and I could say it helps a lot. If you hate someone to death, like you want to kill her for saying something against you - you don't really have to attack her/him back. That's probably will make things even worse. Why don't you attack her/him through writing?? but hey! make sure nobody could read it, or at least no one could read it that knows you both. Spitting it out makes you feel better and I do think it's a good way than confronting her/him straight to their faces.

I'm telling you this because I once in this situation before. I mean confronting someone personally and it only ends up worser, that's why I'm giving you a hint. Don't want you guys to experince what I have experinced before. The most important now is I learned from them and I know now how to handle things like that.

what a long blog after 2 months:) I should have leave some of it for the next one. Have a good night!